The short answer is that life gets easier and more satisfying as your Relationship Intelligence increases. As you become more relationally competent, it is increasingly common for life to go according to plan and your needs to be met.
As you become more savvy as to how relationships work, your needs are more frequently met, you improve your ability to satisfy the needs of others, and the experience of being connected becomes more intentional than accidental. The process of being connected is desirable because it’s then you experience something very special – you feel safe, supported, and validated. Once these three connection features are satisfied, the real magic comes true, and the relationship moves to a higher level, becoming the source from which you improve your sense of mastery and resilience. This is the prize that Relationship Intelligence can help you earn!