Most don’t realize that conflict is the ultimate source of relational wisdom.
Conflict that repeats itself is a signal of unmet needs, which can be recent or remote. Learning to tap into your vulnerability during distress is key to understanding how conflict can be turned into a connection.
During conflict, your instincts compel you to protect yourself, defend your position, lash out, and, sometimes, get even. Your upbringing has programmed you to perceive conflict as negative, unwanted, and something to be avoided. Further, by not challenging your past, you blindly become committed to a life of unsatisfactory connections, spoiled relationships, and unfulfilled promises.
Does this sound familiar?
If so, Relationship Intelligence provides the framework for learning the right lessons from your past, moving toward vulnerability, and realizing your relational potential by learning how to ‘turn conflict into connection’.