Twogether Results
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Congratulations on completing the Twogether Index (TGI™) quiz.
Your results are below!
Total Score Interpretation: Fragmented System
Score: / 125
Your scores for each of five domains are detailed below.
Shared Awareness result: Fragmented
Questions 1–5 address the Shared Awareness domain.
1. We recognize when we are talking about different issues during conflict.
2. We pause to clarify the actual problem before continuing.
3. I feel understood before my partner moves into responding.
4. We can accurately summarize each other’s perspectives.
5. We notice when the conversation goes off track and reset it together.
Your score: / 25
Big Picture Thinking: Are we looking at the same problem together?
Narrative Integration result: Fragmented
Questions 6–10 address the Narrative Integration domain.
6. We avoid exaggerating or distorting past events during disagreements.
7. We can acknowledge that we experienced the same event differently.
8. We correct misunderstandings about past interactions when they arise.
9. We do not weaponize past mistakes against each other.
10. We work toward a shared understanding of important events.
Your score: / 25
Big Picture Thinking: Do we carry compatible stories about what happens between us?
Meaning Alignment result: Fragmented
Questions 11–15 address the Meaning Alignment domain.
11. I do not assume negative intent without checking first.
12. We explore alternative explanations before reacting.
13. I believe my partner is trying to be constructive, even when I’m upset.
14. We question our interpretations rather than immediately defend them.
15. We avoid jumping to conclusions about each other’s motives.
Your score: / 25
Big Picture Thinking: Do we assume connection or threat?
Emotional Coregulation result: Fragmented
Questions 16–20 address the Narrative Integration domain.
16. When one of us is upset, the other helps bring calm to the situation.
17. We can de-escalate conflict once it starts to intensify.
18. Emotional reactions do not spiral out of control between us.
19. We recover from emotional tension in a reasonable amount of time.
20. I feel emotionally safer after conflict, not worse.
Your score: / 25
Big Picture Thinking: Do we stabilize or escalate each other?
Coordinated Action result: Fragmented
Questions 21–25 address the Coordinated Action domain.
21. We slow down rather than react impulsively during conflict.
22. Our actions reflect a desire to protect the relationship.
23. We avoid behaviors that we know will escalate tension.
24. We make decisions with “us” in mind, not just ourselves.
25. We follow through on efforts to repair and reconnect.
Your score: / 25
Big Picture Thinking: Do we act in ways that preserve “us”?